Guest Post: Helping Kids Understand Different Types of Families

Discussing different types of families with your kids—not all families come in one shape or size

The first time my son asked me, “Daddy, how come Daniel doesn’t have a mummy?  All the other families do, don’t they?”  I was speechless.  It wasn’t an expected question at all, so I tried to explain that not all families had Mummy's, and when he asked why, I did all I could to stop myself from saying “I don’t know.”

Explaining to your kids that not all families come in one shape or size can be tricky.  Kids are full of questions, and you never know what they’re going to ask next, so it’s best to be prepared, and keep it all simple.  I’ll show you so you don’t end up as speechless and confused as I was.

Families are about love

Keep this at the back of your mind at all times, because you’ll be falling back on this the majority of the time:  families are groups of people who love and take care of each other.  As long as they love and take care of each other, they are a family—it doesn’t matter if it’s a big group of people, or if it’s two people, or if the people aren’t biologically related—members of a family love each other.

There are many different types of families

There are several different types of families; nuclear, single parent, step—, grandparent-led, same-sex parented, foster, and many more.  By knowing these, you can be best prepared for when your kids ask you about them—go back to the explanation that the thing that these all have in common is that everyone loves each other very much, and that’s what makes them a family, even if they are a little different to what you may have.

Let the questions flow

Though it could be uncomfortable for you to talk about your separation or any similarly uncomfortable situation, you’ll have to face the fact that this is going to come up when your kids ask questions, so you should prepare an answer—something like, “Watson and I were unhappy living together—it isn’t your fault—we both love you very much” should go down well.  Remember, when answering questions, that you don’t ever blame your kids. 

Pass on the happiness

Letting your kids be aware of all the different types of families will help them to accept all the different types of families that their fiends at school will have.  If your own situation is different from the nuclear model, just remember that it won’t matter for your kids, as long as they grow up in a loving, nurturing environment—in other words, a family.

Good luck!

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Guest Post: 5 Easy Macaroni and Cheese Recipes (with Gourmet Appeal)

While mac and cheese is adored by many, homemade mac and cheese can be time-consuming and rather tedious. If your schedule doesn’t allow for much time in the kitchen, try these five easy macaroni and cheese recipes—they can be made in no time. And the best part is no one will ever notice they came from a box. With a few tweaks and additions here and there, you can provide gourmet goodness without putting forth the ‘gourmet’ effort.



Old-Fashioned Baked Mac & Cheese
The recipe may be ‘old fashioned,’ but this is one of those macaroni and cheese recipes that never gets old. The diced tomatoes, Italian dressing and bread crumbs provide a delightful boost of flavor to an already-delicious baked mac and cheese.

Servings: 4

Ingredients
1 pkg. (7-1/4 oz.) macaroni & cheese dinner
1/4 cup milk
1 can (14-1/2 oz.) diced tomatoes, drained
1/4 cup Zesty Italian dressing
2 Tbsp. butter, melted
1 cup bread crumbs

Directions

Heat oven to 375°F.

Add macaroni to large saucepan boiling water; cook 6 minutes or until tender. Drain. Stir in milk and cheese sauce mix.

Pour into greased 8-inch square baking dish. Mix tomatoes and dressing. Top macaroni mixture with tomato mixture. Drizzle butter over bread crumbs; toss with fork. Sprinkle over tomatoes.

Bake 15 minutes or until heated through and crumbs are golden.

Memphis-Style BBQ Mac & Cheese
Memphis, Tennessee is known for many things, including Elvis Presley and Graceland, the Memphis Grizzlies and southern barbecue. But this tasty barbecue mac and cheese recipe (Memphis style, of course) is certainly worth a mention also. Hide your grandma—she might get slapped!

Servings: 5

Ingredients
1 pkg. (14 oz.) deluxe macaroni & cheese dinner
1/2 lb. lean ground beef
1/2 cup finely chopped onions
2 cloves garlic, finely chopped
1/2 cup Memphis-style barbecue sauce
2 slices bacon, cooked, crumbled
1 green onion, sliced


Directions

Cook macaroni as directed on package. Meanwhile, brown meat with onions and garlic in large skillet; drain.

Add macaroni, cheese Sauce and barbecue sauce to meat mixture in skillet; stir. Cook 2 to 3 minutes or until heated through, stirring occasionally.

Top with bacon and onions.



Chipotle Chile Mac and Cheese
Chilly outside? Turn up the heat with Chipotle Chile Mac and Cheese. This is one of those macaroni and cheese recipes that disappears in no time, especially if you are cooking for hungry teenage boys. Make plenty of servings and enjoy leftovers the following night (if you’re lucky enough!).

Servings: 6

Ingredients
1 pkg. (14 oz.) Kraft Deluxe Macaroni & Sharp Cheddar Cheese Sauce
1 lb. lean ground beef
1 onion, finely chopped
1 red bell pepper, finely chopped
1 canned chipotle pepper in adobo sauce, minced
4 green onions, thinly sliced
3/4 cup shredded cheddar cheese
6 Ritz crackers, coarsely crushed (about 1/4 cup)

Directions

Heat oven to 400ºF.

Prepare dinner as directed on package. Meanwhile, brown beef with onion and bell pepper in large skillet over medium-high heat 5 minutes. Drain.

Add meat mixture to prepared dinner and stir in chipotle pepper. Spoon into greased 2-qt. casserole or baking dish. Top with green onions, cheese and cracker crumbs.

Bake 15 minutes or until mixture is hot.

All-in-One Veggie Mac and Cheese
Most parents are trying to find creative ways of sneaking vegetables into their children’s diet, and this is the perfect solution. The creaminess in this macaroni and cheese recipe overshadows the mixed vegetables. Kids will think they are getting away with eating their veggies, and grown-ups will think it’s gourmet—a win-win situation!

Servings: 8

Ingredients

1-1/2 cups water
1 cup milk
1 pkg. (14 oz.) deluxe macaroni & cheese dinner
3 cups frozen mixed vegetables
1 Tbsp. butter


Directions

Bring water and milk just to boil in large saucepan on medium heat. Add macaroni; stir. Reduce heat to low; simmer 6 minutes or until macaroni is tender.

Stir in vegetables; cover. Simmer 3 minutes until liquid is almost absorbed and vegetables are heated through, stirring occasionally.

Add cheese sauce and butter; stir until well blended.

Mac & Cheese-Stuffed Poblanos
Stuffed vegetables serve as wonderful appetizers, side dishes or main entrées, and give new meaning to gourmet macaroni and cheese recipes. Fool your family into thinking you’ve spent hours making these mac and cheese-stuffed poblano peppers—they won’t know the difference! For those who like added zing, keep hot sauce close by.

Servings: 8

Ingredients

2 pkg. (7-1/4 oz. each) macaroni & cheese dinner
3 hot dogs, chopped
1-1/2 cups Mexican-style shredded four cheese, divided
8 poblano chiles, roasted, peeled and seeded
1/2 tsp. paprika


Directions

Heat oven to 350º F.

Prepare dinners as directed on package. Stir in hot dogs and 1 cup cheese.

Fill chilies with dinner mixture; place, filled-sides up, in single layer in shallow baking dish sprayed with cooking spray. Top with remaining cheese and paprika.

Bake 15 minutes or until cheese is melted and peppers are heated through.

Kick It Up a Notch!
While mac and cheese recipes have remained a staple in recipe boxes for generations, many cooks are creating new variations to old-style dishes. The following ingredients are just a few ways you can spruce up this American classic.

Meats: Bacon,Brisket, Chicken, Chorizo, Ground Beef

Vegetables: Jalapeño Pepper, Poblano Pepper, Wild Mushrooms, Artichoke Hearts, Sun-Dried Tomatoes, Diced Tomatoes, Spinach, Broccoli, Scallions, Corn

Cheeses: Gouda, Blue Cheese, Monterey Jack, Pecorino Romano, Manchego, Asiago, Fontina, Swiss, Goat Cheese, Parmesan

Enjoy the creamy goodness of these gourmet-like macaroni and cheese recipes sans all the fuss. Just because you’re busy doesn’t mean you can’t cook up a fantastic mac and cheese dish.

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Guest Post: My Daughter and Animals

Author: Elias Massey

 

What is it about animals that my daughter loves so much? I’ve never known anyone in my whole life who was so obsessed with furry creatures and if she brings one more rabbit or dog in this house I may lose my mind. Last week she came home with a chinchilla – where in the world did she find that? I had to go online with my Http://WILDBLUEdeals.com internet and find out what to feed the thing because I’d never even seen one in real life – she got a good talking to for that one but we did end up keeping it. I know she has the best of intentions but our house is small to begin with and we just don’t have the money to keep adding mouths to feed, you know? I think she’ll want to be a vet someday and that makes me excited since I’ve always wanted something for her like that. Hopefully she can do well in high school and get a scholarship to college so we can afford it!

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