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Thursday, August 26, 2010

So I fell a little behind on my 30 Days of Truth—no bigge I’m just going to post days 8 and 9 together.  Is that cool? 

So Day 8’s Question is:  Someone who made your life hell or treated you like shit!

Wow, I could be here all day, but I’ll just say my ex husband and his ex and leave it at that.

Day 9 question is:  Someone you didn’t want to let go, but they just drifted.

This one is kind of complicated.  Complicated because I’m not really sure if I should admit it, but this is 30 days of truth so I will tell it like it is. 

Without naming names (though I’m sure if he were reading this he would probably know it was about him) I will just say that it was my first love.  For so many years I thought that he was “the one”, and for so long I used him as the guy I measured every other guy in my life against.  After we lost touch it was difficult to imagine that he would never be in my life again because he truly meant so much to me, but eventually I realized that if it were meant to be, it would be and if not, well we’d end up either never speaking to each other again or as pretty good friends.  I’m happy to say that I count him as one of my great friends and that is just as good (maybe better) than him being “the one”. 

2 comments :

  1. Oooh, the first question makes me cringe- without a doubt, my mom (alcohol and denial problems- she's never even met my 9 month old)... but the second question makes me smile and reminisce even though it's sad. I think it's never too late to pick up the phone and catch up with an old friend- even if it is from out of nowhere. I'm sure they'll appreciate it :)

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  2. good choices.. aww first loves are always the hardest to part with aren't they...

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